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Being honest with yourself in therapy: why it’s scary, and why it’s worth it

Being honest with yourself in therapy: why it’s scary, and why it’s worth it This blog post came about after conversations with clients and a therapy session...
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Considering no contact with family? Some things worth reflecting on first

Here are my reflections on having read the article published in The Guardian last week. Going no contact with family is a big deal. It’s often sensationalised within...

Feeling lonely in a relationship? How childhood experiences might be part of the picture

Feeling lonely in a relationship? How childhood experiences might be part of the picture When a good relationship still doesn’t feel like enough Most of us go into...
Childhood experiences affecting you as an adult: why the weeds always grow back

Childhood experiences affecting you as an adult: why the weeds always grow back

Your childhood doesn’t stay in the past. Here’s why. Imagine your inner world as a garden. Over the years, weeds have grown, the kind that take root early...

Shame and not feeling good enough: what it is, how it arrives, and what to do next

Shame and not feeling good enough: what it is, how it arrives, and what to do next Hello, Shame! A lecturer of mine once told me, “Shame is the most destructive...
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Childhood emotional neglect and parental burnout: why parenting can feel so much harder for you

Childhood emotional neglect and parental burnout: Why parenting can feel so much harder for you You’re trying so hard. So why does it still feel like it’s not...
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Struggling to leave an unhealthy relationship? There might be a reason you’re still there

Struggling to leave an unhealthy relationship? There might be a reason you’re still there Why CEN Makes It So Hard to Leave You know something isn’t right...
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Signs of childhood emotional neglect in adults: Is this what’s been going on?

Signs of childhood emotional neglect in adults: Is this what’s been going on? You’re doing fine. So why doesn’t it feel like it? On paper, life looks...

Parental Estrangement – How can therapy help?

Parental Estrangement – How can therapy help? Parental Estrangement – How can therapy help? If you are estranged from your parents or family, or are...